Love at First Sight?

Love at first sight? Is that even possible? There are a lot of people who seem to think so. I am not one of them. When you first see someone, you judge their outer appearence. What they are wearing, their hair, their eyes, body type, ect. If you find them physically appealing, you might consider that love at first sight. But really all that is is lust. Nothing more. To truely love someone, you have to know them. You have to spend time with them and learn what makes that person who they are. All the little quirks that are unique to them. Of course no one is perfect. So to really honestly love someone, you have to love their flaws too. Not like them, but them them in spite of the flaws.

Now for the question of soul mates. Is there such a thing? Is there really someone out there designed by God to be 100% perfect for you? And if there is just one, how do you go about finding this person? And in the event that you do happen to find them and something happens to them, what then? Is that it? Are you supposed to spend the rest of your life alone, with just your memories of that person to keep you warm at night? Or is it possible that, in the event something happens to your soul mate, there is another out there somewhere? And if that is so, then that would mean that both of them are perfect for you, right? And if they are both right for you, then is it just a matter of chance that you met the first one first? Or was the first one not really the one for you?

P.S. I apologize for my random musings. I had some very strange dreams last night that made me think of this stuff.